Have You Waited Too Long to Have a Baby? With Deborah Fryer

podcast Dec 08, 2023

“Be super conscious of your language and do whatever you can do to support the inner environment that is supportive, nurturing, and inviting to that baby out there looking for someone to be its mom.”

Topics Discussed:

🦩 The struggle of feeling worthy and capable.

🦩 The choice between having a child and financial security.

🦩 Money mindset and its impact on motherhood.

🦩 The importance of mothering yourself and healing generational issues.

🦩 The power of language and mindset.

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Have you struggled with feeling unworthy in your journey to motherhood? Maybe it’s because of your financial concerns or impostor syndrome? Whatever it is, it’s important not to allow it to hold you back from fulfilling your dreams.

In this episode of the Finding Fertility podcast, I speak with Deborah Fryer, a money mindset mentor, spiritual business coach, and creator of the Anatomy of Money system for holistic wealth and well-being. She helps heart-centered entrepreneurs break through subconscious mental, emotional, and financial blocks and create soul-aligned 6- or 7-figure businesses with ease, speed, and confidence. Deborah shares her experience of being on the fence about motherhood in her 30s and the complexities involved.

Listen in to learn how to overcome financial limitations, plus the importance of tapping into your creative impulse to manifest abundance. You will also learn the importance of healing the ‘mother’ wound in order to have a healthy relationship with money and to create a supportive inner environment for fertility.

“Our attachment style to our parents shows up in our relationship to money.”

Episode Highlights:

  • [02:16] Deborah’s background in documentary filmmaking, joining and ditching medical school, and starting her own business.
  • [04:57] She shares a dream she had about having to choose between a career and having children. 
  • [09:38] The complexities of deciding whether to have a child and the conflicting desires and concerns related to personal experiences and values.
  • [14:39] How a scarcity mindset around money can hold people back from experiencing motherhood and the importance of shifting to an abundant mindset.
  • [23:15] The impact of your relationship with your parents on your relationship with money and the significance of self-mothering and healing the mother wound.
  • [27:55] Understanding imposter syndrome, feelings of not being good enough, and how they affect fertility.
  • [30:45] The importance of conscious language and mindset in shaping your reality about fertility and the subconscious mind.
  • [35:28] How EFT tapping can help calm the nervous system, plus the importance of finding the modality that works for you.

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