How to Follow Your Intuition When You’re Dealing With Infertility with Victoria Shaw

podcast Nov 04, 2022

“Sometimes we have to make peace with what is, to get back on track to what we want.”

Topics Discussed:

🦩 How to set the intention to live a more intuitive life. 

🦩 How to let go of fear and take back your power.

🦩 Find things that help you connect with your soul

How do you deepen the connection with your intuition? Connecting with your intuition allows you to focus on the goodness flowing into your life rather than the complicated parts of it.

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In this episode of the Finding Fertility podcast, Monica speaks with Victoria Shaw, an intuitive counselor, and consultant. She was an educational psychologist before she discovered her intuitive side and now helps other people connect with their inner wisdom. Victoria uses her unique gifts to help people navigate their lives from a soul-based perspective to activate their own unique gifts.

Listen in to learn how to listen and trust your intuition to help you navigate your fertility journey no matter how complicated things get.

“Your intuition is your connection back to your soul.”

Episode Highlights:

  • [3:55] Victoria’s journey from an educational psychologist to an intuitive counselor.
  • [11:39] How to intentionally develop your intuition so you can listen, trust, and follow it.
  • [14:00] She explains what intuition is and how it shows up for a lot of people.
  • [18:57] How your intuition can help you navigate the complicated parts of life like infertility.
  • [26:10] How to start paying attention to your intuition and how it’s working for you.
  • [29:14] Find things that help you get out of your mind and start connecting with your soul.
  • [30:50] How to quiet your mind through practices like meditation to better listen to your intuition.
  • [33:44] Victoria talks about her intuition course Activating Your Intuition.

Listen here: How to Follow Your Intuition When You’re Dealing With Infertility with Victoria Shaw

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Full Transcript: 

Hello beautiful and welcome to finding fertility. I'm your host, Monica Cox from finding And I created this podcast to help get you to start thinking outside of the box and realise that your infertility might have nothing to do with your lady bits rooted in functional medicine and personal experience. Finding fertility is all about looking at the whole body and finding the root cause of your infertility. Finding fertility does not diagnose, prescribe or treat any issues of infertility. But what we do is take a holistic approach and improve your diet and your lifestyle to get you steps closer to creating your dream family. Just by being here with me listening to this podcast, you're already going down the right path to making your dreams come true. Let's do this together.

Happy Friday. Oh, welcome back to another episode of finding fertility. I'm your host, Monica Cox. And I am here with Victoria Shaw. I'm super, super excited to have you on. So welcome to the podcast.

Thanks for having me. I'm excited. Yeah, I

just want to give our listeners a little bit of a background of how we got connected. You put in a Facebook group for podcasters like looking for guests. And I just reached out talking about how I wanted to get a little bit more woowoo and tapping with my spirit guides. And your spirit guides kept knocking on your door going get her on camera.

Yeah, cuz I had a lot of people say yes. And I was sort of overwhelmed. And but your name just didn't go away.

Yeah. And I think we reconnected a few weeks later. And you're like, When can you record I was like right now, just like happened, right? And from a personal experience for me, it was very overwhelming, in a very good way. But I told my friends, I thought you were just really going to say, you know, your grandma's Zuma loved Yeah, she's really proud of you. And it completely wasn't that. So it was an amazing experience. And that has really helped me move forward with my journey and where I want to go. So thank you for that. But tell us a little bit about your background and who you are.

Absolutely. So my background in training. My first career was as an academic psychologist. So I was fascinated by things like how do people reason? And how do people remember things and even the bigger questions like What is consciousness, and I pursued a PhD I, I was have an undergraduate degree in philosophy and psychology, I earned my PhD in cognitive psychology. And when I got to the end of that journey, what I realised I had a PhD in psychology, it was all great. But my passion was gone, my passion was gone. And I realised now, what was missing at the time, I didn't really know. I just knew that those big questions and those big things that I was passionate about, for me, were not things that could be answered in the lab. And so I said, Well, you know, this is not the kind of career that one pursues, if one's not passionate about it. Because being an academic at the level that I was at, I was at an Ivy League. You know, it's sort of like being in the NBA, like, you have to give it everything you have to go where the jobs are like it's high level stuff. And I didn't love it. And so I took some time off and started my family. And I did some writing and some other projects. But the whispers I think that brought me into that first career, they didn't go away, and I kept having the sense that there was something I was supposed to be doing. And yet I didn't know what it was. And it was through the journey of my kids. And there they I had gotten a midwife because, well, I don't want to get too graphic on the podcast, but I heard that they do this little snippy thing, you know, the traditional doctors when you're giving birth and I didn't want one of those. And so someone said you should get a midwife. So I got a midwife. So that was my first like out of the box stop. And the midwife after I had my child said this is the best paediatrician all the midwives go to him and he was amazing. And he was a doctor that listened which was an experience I hadn't had before. But he was also really out of the box. So he you know, would might the first time I kid had a cold, he sent us to a cranial sacral therapist. It was like the best thing ever she worked on I had a cold too, and she worked on me. I was like, This is amazing. And you know, acupuncturist, which was out of the box for me at the time, and then medical intuitives and then, you know, it just kept getting weirder and weirder. And two things happen. Number one, I was exposed to this whole world of alternative treatments and you know, getting increasingly well, and it was working and it was helping It was mind blowingly accurate. And the second thing that kept happening is all of these people, the astrologers, and the medical intuitives, and the intuitive intuitives, and the psychics and mediums and all these weird people that was now interfacing with all came back to me and said, Victoria, you're so intuitive, what are you going to do with it? And you know, it took some time for me to put A and B together and realise, oh, wait, that's what I'm supposed to be doing. But the moment I took that first intuition development class and made that commitment, everything about my life changed for the better. And that's what I do. Now I help other people connect with their inner wisdom, because we all have it. And I use my own unique gifts, because we all have those to to help people navigate their lives for more of a soul based perspective. So see things from that higher, higher vantage point so that they can activate their own inner gifts.

Yeah, it's amazing. Did you know anything about intuition? Or did you feel anything about intuition before you got into the woowoo? stuff? Like when you look back at your like, let's say previous life? Do you see elements of it? Or was it like completely blind?

So I don't think I had a clearer frame of reference for understanding it. But there were some things about my life that I knew for one thing, I was always told that I was very insightful. And it would be surprising to me, but I would say something and people would be like, Whoa, that's like, so insightful. For a seven year old or, you know, I wrote a series of papers in high school, I went to a very alternative high school, where I kind of got to do whatever I wanted, and wrote a series of papers that my English teacher and the director of our school went crazy about. And one was on Dante's Inferno. It was on Dante, the other was on Kafka. But what I realised that I was doing now when I look back, because I was reading them, I was using my intuition, and they were biographies. But I was tuning into their energy, right now, I would not have known that's what I was doing. I just had an idea I went with it. But so I can look back now and see all these places where my intuition was active in my life. I also knew as, as a child with ever, and as a young adult, whenever anything really, quote unquote, good happened to me, it always just seemed to appear, it seemed to come like into my lap. And I learned to trust that I learned to trust that, like magical things will happen, you don't have to like really, I mean, I forced and pushed in a lot of places in my life, too. But the really good stuff would just kind of line up. And I think that too, was just a way of my understanding and appreciating that divine guidance that we all have. So I was always I was also an empath. So empaths are people that feel what other people are feeling like it happens to them. So that that was a little bit of a challenge for me, because one of the things that I needed to learn to do is to have good energetic boundaries, stay in my own lane and not get weighed down by all the emotions, and suffering and pains and you know, of others. So that and part of my journey and awakening my intuition and getting clear was letting go of a lot of that, that, you know, emotional and psychic garbage with. But, um, so yes, I think I was always highly intuitive. I didn't know what it was called. Sometimes I tapped into it, sometimes they didn't. But once I became more intentional about it, it just becomes a much more powerful tool.

Yeah, exactly. You know, a big part of my coaching is helping women tap into that intuition. And I just, I don't really have any, like, formal training or anything. But just my own experience is like, really just about like, and I know, you're gonna give us much more tips about this, but I help women say like, just slow down, slow down, and really try to take away those external things and the things that you want to happen, or you. Yeah, I'm losing the word that I'm trying to reach for. And really listen, if those things were gone, what would your answer be? Right? And, you know, I know for me in my own journey, when and I the same as you like, I knew that I had these unique abilities to kind of really fill up the room really fill out the situation, but I didn't know to trust or to follow it. So every time I didn't follow it, there was a lot more heartache. There was a lot more financial burden. There was a lot more time that I had to go through certain things to get to what I knew was right in the first place. And I don't know if it was the universe going okay, well, we tried to tell you so here's some lessons for you to learn. So maybe you'll listen next time. But what when you work with someone or I know you have a really Amazing online programme was kind of the first step for women who wants to tap into these things. Oh,

my apologies. Yeah, I love so much of what you said it is getting quiet, it is stilling the mind that helps us tap in. I think the first step when I teach people to really connect with their intuition is to is to set the intention to do it. Like intention is really powerful. So the minute you say like, you know what, I want to live a more intuitively guided life, you are setting things in motion to start to live that reality. So that's really the first step. And you know what, I'm gonna actually backtrack because you said something else. And I apologise my No, I might wonder, though you go with it. Okay, you were talking about because this is so powerful. You were talking about all those times, when you have a hunch, you have an intuitive nudge, and you don't listen to it. And then you find out, Oh, my gosh, right, I should have listened to that. Those things are not punishments, my friends, okay. That's validation, validation, that your intuition was working just fine. And you know, be kind to yourself, because we're not taught to listen to that voice. We're actually taught to ignore that voice, we are taught that voice is not valuable. Listen to your brain, listen to what other people say, listen to what the people in the white coat, say, or the authority, say, or your parents say, don't listen to your own inclinations and your own intuition. So all of our conditioning takes us away from that. Right? So first of all, it's a testament that you hear it at all, which is great. And then you have this great validation that Oh, that was my intuition. And I know because I'm, and I'm gonna remember because I didn't listen to it, and I had this outcome. And so those are powerful moments, they're not punishment moments, they're not moments to take the, you know, the bat and whack yourself over the head, I don't recommend that. They're moments to celebrate. And there are moments to say, Okay, I'm starting to learn what it feels like. And I'm starting to build that relationship, so I can trust it more. And intuition development is really about building that relationship with something that's happening all the time, your intuition is, is happening all the time, you're always getting that information. And it's about building that relationship so that you can listen more deeply, that you can hear it that you can discern it from all the noise. And also, of course, so that you can trust it and follow it.

Yeah, yeah. In your personal opinion, or belief, what is this intuition.

So the way that I understand it, and you don't have to go through to get there, but it's the way I like to do it. I believe that we are all spiritual beings having a human experience. And when we come to earth, and when we put on this human cloak, right, we forgot a lot about our sexual nature. And that's kind of how it's supposed to work. And so you put this blindfold on, and you're navigating this obstacle course, and right, and you've forgotten a lot of what your higher self, right? That wise, divine part of yourself knows your intuition is your connection back to your spirit back to your soul. And it never goes away. Everybody has it, because we are all spiritual beings having this human experience. But it's like that spiritual GPS system that keeps you on track, and all aspects of your life and intuition to oftentimes, and this can be frustrating for people that are used to the mind and they're used to conscious and they're used to needing to know everything now and having the complete answer. Intuition often works in these little dribbles and drabs and breadcrumbs, right, because your Higher Self can't give it to you all at once. Because you are still exploring and learning here. And so we get these little nudges, we get these little hints, we don't always get the full picture. So connecting with your intuition to is an act of surrender. It's an act of letting go. It's an act of trust, and we follow each little nudge. And as we're going along, we're like, oh, no, it

makes sense. Yeah, yeah, totally. I love that you use the word surrender, because that's a big thing that's been coming up. And a big issue with fertility, is that you want to be pregnant yesterday. Yeah, right. And with all these medical treatments that we now have available to us, it is almost kind of sold as like, well, we can make this happen for you a lot quicker. Just go through these processes. And what's really missing for a lot of women is that surrender and not trying to force something that your physical body because I always say you're a physical being right now on a physical earth, that you have to play the game. Right? Like it's not you, no matter how like spiritual people become, I mean, maybe some, but you still have to like take care of your physical body. You still got to do those action steps to move and eat and sleep and do all the things that are really going to support you and I think to have a better higher experience as well, because you don't have that brain fog, you're not sick in bed, you can just focus on being present and being alive and having those experiences. But a lot of people just want to push. I mean, and especially in this society, right, it's like, instant access to everything. So why can't I be pregnant tomorrow with this. And when you tap into the spiritual side of things you do soon realise, like, Okay, this is gonna be a journey, I'll pack my bag and walk slowly along with you.

But, I mean, it doesn't have to be hard. And I've seen people get instantaneous results with all sorts of things, but just not in the way that we think. We think if we push if we, you know, if we, we give our power away to other things, right, if I take this medicine, if I follow this diet, if I do this thing that will solve the problem, rather than holding ourselves with love, wherever we're at honouring wherever we find ourselves in the journey with great love for ourselves. And if you can muster great love for the journey as well. That's when things tend to flow. And that's also when we tend to hear the guidance, which will show us what the path forward is, you know, and how to get there. A lot of times, people again, we look at externals, we want someone to fix the problem for us, we want the 10 steps to get there, we want someone else to promise that they will take our hand and they will make it happen. And I love optimistic medicine. So I really love it when doctors say I can get this done for you. Because I believe in the law of attraction, which is this idea that we create our reality based on what we believe is possible. And so I'm not a fan of medical people that come out and say, this is going to be a hard journey, and you may not get there. And you know, your age is not going to we don't need that conditioning. It's yeah, you know, so that's all about optimism and encouragement. Yeah.

And I would say for a large majority of people dealing with infertility, that's what they get told they get a diagnosis, and especially if you're over like 38 Oh my goodness, the way the doctors put the fear in these women that that's it, you're done, like do IVF. Right, and don't do anything else. And I I try to encourage my clients who are over 40 I'm like, you're already 40? Like haven't, right? It's not gonna get any worse from here, it's gonna take you 10 years to get to 50. So let's just use this time wisely. Instead of pushing ourselves.

Yeah, a lot of our world is fear based. And so you know, everything's around fear. And I think sometimes doctors inadvertently, and sometimes, purposefully, but I think it's mostly just how the system works and how they're trained. And I don't think there's any maliciousness. But I think a lot of times, you know, we justify our existence based on fear, right, we sell things by fear. If you don't follow this protocol, you will not get what you want. Or you will, if you know, if it's cancer, you will die, you know, and, again, it takes us out of our intuition. And intuition is really surprising, too, because sometimes intuition is gonna say, do the IVF, you know, like, your passion is going to help, you know, the fastest way to get there. Sometimes intuition is gonna say, and this is a hard one, this isn't meant to be for you in this body, right? Because sometimes it's not again, I wouldn't, I wouldn't say that to someone, most likely, I'm all about optimism, but we have like pads and stuff. And sometimes we choose to learn in different ways. And sometimes our ego, which is our smaller sense of self will have a plan about how we think things should be in our soul has a different one. And so sometimes we have to make peace with what is sometimes we have to make peace with what is to get back on track to what we want. So it's complicated. Life is a complicated undertaking. But your intuition is with you every step of the way, to help you navigate, and it will help you navigate in surprising ways. And it will help you navigate in ways that like I promise you your brain could not ever conceive of.

Yeah. Yeah. And I think that's just the hardest part, right? Like, I know, in my journey, I got to a point where it was over five years, I had never seen a positive pregnancy test. And I I surrendered not knowing that that's what I was doing. But I was just like, Okay, this journey is now only about making myself proud and be able to look back and never wonder what if so, if I walk away with a child or without a child, it doesn't matter anymore, because now it's really just about being healthy, being happy, being alive, because I've lived so many years. It wasn't working, right, like holding on and grasping and doing the IVF like it wasn't working. So I had to pivot. And that was one of the pivots that I made of just like, Okay, I'm still going to be in pursuit of this, but it's not going to be my main focus. Right. And that's really hard for women.

Absolutely. And it's hard to because you want something so bad, and you're so focused on not having it. And from a law of attraction standpoint, when you're focused on not having something you're actually sending out the energy of I don't have this. So it's harder for the universe to come back and give it to you. But it's also a powerful opportunity for self love or self acceptance, which is what we're actually here to learn. So you can use that to say, All right, this is hard. This is challenging, like, you know, maybe even devastating. Let me sit with that. Let me love myself through it. Let me honour that, then let me start to listen to the whispers of my soul again, so I can get back on track. Let me focus on where is, you know, the goodness flowing in my life right now. So I can start to feel into that again. Right, maybe I'm having trouble with this part of the journey. But I have a wonderful partner a wonderful career, or desire to start running or, you know, feeding myself in a different way or caring for myself. And you know, I'm all about physically caring for yourself is a beautiful thing. But I think the most important thing is how we emotionally care for ourselves and the love that we give to ourselves the same steps, the same diet, the same exercise programme, the same medical treatment can have a very different effect on your well being depending on the energy with which you undertake it. And if you are going at it from a place of I'm broken, I need to be fixed, you know, I'm lazy, I need to be fixed. It's very different than wow, I want to you know, I find that eating this much sugar, I don't feel good. And I feel really better when I eat a little less sugar and a little more fruit, you know, or whatever that is for you, you'll find that you know, those are loving choices. And sometimes, you know, you'll be like, I really need a logical right now. I don't know why, but that's what I need. I don't know why that popped into my brain. Maybe someone needs one. I don't think I've had one of those. Right and then sometimes that's exactly what you know, you need and crave. So again, intuition will get you there. But also it's it comes from that place of self love, right or so our higher self that knows knows nothing other than love and and wants you to be reacquainted with that energy here in the here and now.

Yeah, and I think that's a really hard thing for a lot of people to swallow is and I know, this was definitely true for me. I didn't have self love. And I didn't have self worth. And I didn't think that I didn't know that. And you couldn't look at me and be like, Oh my God, she's so sad and depressed. I was the party girl, I was the life of the party. I had lots of friends and the truth of the matter. When I started digging, when I started digging into these things of like, well, why can't I, you know, not have a glass of wine? Why can't I just change up my diet easily? It's like, Well, do you love yourself enough to do it? Because that's like a sign right? Like you, you love yourself enough, you think you're worthy enough to start treating yourself a certain way. And I know the mindset piece, I talk about it all the time. Like it's so important. And one thing that really pivoted in my journey, I was sat in my beautiful home in your York, England, and eating this beautiful organic meal. And I was pissed off, I was so mad at the world. And then I physically started laughing out loud at myself, like what are you mad about? Like, seriously, you have the money to buy this food, you have the time to make it, you have this beautiful home, you're not outside digging a ditch or living in poverty, really, you're really mad. And I guess I was like, my intuition or my higher self having that conversation with me like, Come on, girl wake up, let's, let's change this mindset. Because if you keep this mindset, you're not going to be able to do this journey the way you want to do it.

Right. And that was redirecting you to again to where things are flowing, where where things are abundant, or where things are working for you so that you can feel into that. And that gets the energy flowing again, it gets the energy flowing again. But so often we focus on where we're stuck. And it's normal, you know, because you don't like to feel like, you're never really stuck. But you focus on where you think you're stuck. And then you're just, you're just basically you know, when you have when a car and it's in a rut and you're trying to like get it out of the run and the wheel is spinning it it's going deeper into the right. That's the time to focus on something else. Right. And and then you'll find the next thing you'll know, you'll be down the road 50 miles and you'll be like, I don't even know how I got here. Yeah,

oh my gosh, I look back at my life 10 years ago, and I'm just a different person. Right? What? Okay, so the first step is setting the intentions. What would be your second step for them?

Notice where it's happening for you now. So notice those times like you said before, when you have a hunch, and you didn't listen and it turned out to be right, don't beat yourself up. Notice it. You know, I often recommend start a journal, if that's your thing, right? So you start to write down all the things in your life that you think you were your intuition and all the little hunches that you have now, and you'll start to see patterns and you'll start to see see that it's happening for you all the time, you'll start to understand how it speaks to you. And you'll start to see to the you know, what's the wishful thinking and the fearful thinking those things that I was 100%? Sure, and it didn't quite pan out that way. So you start to make that distinction. So paying attention is another big one. And just noticing because it's, there's not a person on this planet that's non intuitive. It's happening all the time. Yeah. So you set the intention, you start to pay it, pay attention, intention, attention. And then you know, you, you start to flow with it, you start to flow with it, you start to recognise how it speaks to you, because everyone has their own unique relationship with our intuition. And sometimes people will come to me and they've done years of intuition development, and they've read all the books and you know, or they've seen, they've gone to see someone like me or another medium, or, and they want it to come through a particular way. Because you know, that's how I saw you do it, I should have it that way. And so the next thing is, you have to understand that it's different for all of us, tune into your own unique gifts. The first class that I took was very visually oriented. All they wanted us to do is see see see, like everything in for me that visual sense was the last one to kick in. I'm much more kinesthetic, I feel energy, I feel in my body, I hear things. I know things. And so it was a powerful step in that very first class for me to recognise, I can't, I can't do it this way. And they don't understand. They don't understand my language. And you know, so I moved on. And it's just and I've also had people that will say, I'm not intuitive, because they don't recognise, they're looking for something that someone else does. They don't recognise how it's working for them. So it's important to just start to pay attention to how those hunches are working for you. And you know, it's good to know the different ways in which intuition often presents itself to people. The five Claire's, right? Some people hear their guidance, like a constant voice in their head. Some people feel it in their body, like a sense of knowing or physical sensations, like a knot in your stomach, or an expansive feeling in your in your chest. Right. So people do see things, they get imagery. And so all these are valid, but I've seen gifts that are even beyond that, even beyond that. And so it's just starting to know how it's working for you. Yeah.

And what would be your one tip on a physical element that you have seen success with your clients or you know, just your community that they can easily implement to help that flow? Right, have have that intuition? Learn if there is one? Oh, yeah,

I learned to steal your mind. And that can be through meditation. I yours. Truly, meditation has not been a huge part of my practice. And I don't really like it that much. Even though it's one of those things. I know I should do more and like flossing your teeth like when I do do it. I'm like, so glad I did. But it has it hasn't been necessary. But I do spend a lot of time in nature. For me walking is really important. Being near water is very important. I know from his people in the shower in the bath is a great time to hear their guidance. So whatever that works for you stilling your mind, I did a lot of guided visualisations that really helped me. So stilling the mind really, really helps. Some people like to do like shamanic journeying is another way to get out of your mind and start to connect with your intuition. So you'll find what works for you, but things that get you out of your head and into your body into your soul into the into the now we'll help you hear your intuition more, and then it will just start to happen seamlessly. Yeah,

I think that's a really good point. And what I always preach is like, you gotta find what works for you. You know, I think a lot of people have felt let down because they can't meditate, or it's just not their thing. And they're like, Well, I can't do it. And they literally just give up on everything. Right? And it's yeah, like some people just go outside now and get away from the technology, I would say too, is just really disconnect yourself from that for a while part of your day. I know that it's more than one of my big problems is like I could probably steal my mind really easily. But there's this and then there's this and then something happens, you know, yeah.

And it comes through to say to that for your listeners. This one's really interesting. I haven't shared this before, but that learn what it's still mind feels like because a lot of us don't know, are so used to filling that space. So here's truly spends way too much time on my phone. And yet, you know, I talk to spirit guides for a living and I do quite well at it. But I also, you know, and I'm not I'm not advocating spending too much time on your phone, by the way. That's not the point. The point is that I also know what my mind feels like still, I know how to get there when I need to. It's easier of course when I'm doing a reading for someone else, sometimes when it's my stuff, you know, I need a little extra extra tools to get it to quiet down But it always comes. But learn what it feels like to have that quiet mind. So that's where meditation comes in, or being by nature watching sunsets and people like floating tanks. I mean, there's a million ways. And once you start to get into the stillness and trust it and allow it and not feel like you have to fill it up with junk, then you'll create that space, and you'll be able to get there more readily. But the guides are saying to most of my spirit guides, who are always helping me direct these conversations. They're saying to they can get to you, no matter what your intuition, your guidance can get to you no matter what sometimes, you know, I don't recommend this. But sometimes it's when you are totally overwhelmed. You're totally like, I'm done with all of this. You know, that's when the Whisperer comes into when you're just like, so emotionally distraught that you just give up that is another place in which we hear. I don't recommend pursuing it that way. I don't teach it that way. But it'll always get to you. So again, set that intention, start to listen, but if you want to set the conditions for it to happen more learn to quiet your mind.

Yeah. I mean, I, I'm a testament to the overall emotional intuition. I mean, I talked about it on your podcast, and I will share that down in the show notes. That when I was sat in the doctor's office, and they told me that I had no equality, and there was nothing I can do about it. I mean, my intuition that was probably the most powerful, like screaming down at me, like no, do not listen to this. You don't know what you're going to do. I can't tell you what you're going to do. But it's BS, and we're going to figure it out, you're gonna figure it out. And I, you know, like, being 30 years old, like told that that was it, there's nothing to do is so emotional, right. So I definitely believe that that can happen and

knowing within you, right, yeah, moment that this was not true for you. And then you did not have to take that on. I mean, that's so powerful.

Yeah. Thank you so much for coming on. I

can literally just sit here and talk to you for hours, bang, and let you get on with your day. Let our listeners know, I know you have a really cool online course and intuition course. Tell us a little bit about that. Yeah, so I have my online. It's a fully online self paced class. It's a series of, I think, six videos, there's some meditations, there's some homework and some written stuff, too. And it's all about those early steps that you can take to deepen your connection with your intuition. It's called activating your intuition. And it's really an encapsulation of my, over a decade of teaching many, many, many, many people how to connect with their inner wisdom. And I do live while I do live classes to here in San Diego, where I live. And I also do a lot of zoom teachings, too. I'm launching a membership programme in the fall with my podcast. So it's going to be following all the themes that we cover on the show, which is about connecting with your intuition. So a lot of intuition, spirituality law of attraction, just living is your best and brightest self. And so we're gonna go along with the material with the guests that we have on the show. And then you'll have some opportunity for some one on one teaching with me. And so I'm really excited about that. That's going to be launching probably in October. And, yeah, so those are gonna have a podcast as well. Can I share that? Yeah, of course. So my podcast is intuitive connection. And like I said, it's all about helping you to connect with the gifts of your soul.

Yeah, it's an amazing podcast, I listened to it. And I'm really glad that spirits led us to find each other because I don't really go on Facebook much. So obviously, it was meant to be. And where's the best way to connect with you on social media? Oh,

yeah, does should should I say my website too? Yeah, go ahead. Yeah. Okay. So my website is Victoria Shaw So my name And social media. I'm on Instagram, I'm at Victoria shore intuitive. On Facebook, we have a wonderful community intuitive connection community, where I do a lot of free teaching. And occasionally I come on and do some group readings. And it's just it's a fun group, and a lot of interaction and a lot of people again, just really wanting to deepen that connection with their inner knowing and think my business page is victorious Shaw, intuitive counselling.

Cool. I'll put all that into the show notes. People have a super easy access. But thank you once again for taking the time and being with us. I'm excited to connect with you in the future. And thank you for sharing your wisdom.

Oh, thank you for having me. This was really fun. Yeah.

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