The Soul Contracts That Could Be Blocking Your Pregnancy with Katie Beecher Medical Intuitive Part One
You’re Not Crazy. You’re Burnt the Hell Out.
You’ve done it all. The diets. The supplements. The sex-scheduled-to-the-minute spreadsheet. And yep—every fertility test, scan, and soul-sucking IVF cycle your doctor could throw at you. But here you are. Still not pregnant. Still stuck in a Groundhog Day of hormone shots, two-week waits, and heartbreak.
And you’re wondering: “Is it me? Is there something wrong with me that science just can’t fix?”
Let me stop you right there. There’s nothing wrong with you. But there’s something deeper going on—something your doctor’s blood panel won’t touch.
It’s time to talk about what’s really going on beneath the burnout.
The Chaos Comfort Zone
You know what’s harder than another round of IVF? Sitting still. Feeling your feelings. Actually listening to your intuition instead of outsourcing your power to the nearest white coat or wellness guru.
It’s not your fault. You’ve been conditioned to believe someone else holds the answer. But what if the “chaos” of always doing is actually your nervous system’s weird little comfort zone?
IVF trauma isn’t just physical. It’s emotional whiplash. Your nervous system gets stuck in survival mode—and stays there. And when your body’s bracing for impact, fertility takes a back seat.
“Your nervous system is your blueprint. If you don’t reset it, you’re just layering green juice over trauma.”
Your Emotional VHS Tapes Are Running the Show
Here’s the deal: if your subconscious still believes pregnancy = danger, loss, or abandonment (thanks, childhood trauma), your body listens.
There’s no supplement for unresolved grief. No protocol for shame. No lab test that shows the soul contracts you made a lifetime ago.
And yes, those are real. I’ve seen women discover they had soul contracts not to have kids. But guess what? You can renegotiate. You’re not doomed. You’re being invited to look deeper.
And it’s not all mystical woo—this is real healing work. Nervous system regulation. Trauma integration. Emotional release. This is the part the medical model skips. But it’s the piece that often unlocks everything.
The Good Girl Quitter’s Club
If you’re the “good girl” who did everything right, it feels soul-crushing when things still don’t work. You’ve followed the rules. So, where’s the reward?
Here’s the truth no one tells you: real transformation begins when you stop following rules that never served you.
You weren’t born to be a protocol robot. You were born to feel. To trust. To intuitively know what’s right for your body—even when it contradicts your doctor, your mother-in-law, or that smug fertility influencer on Instagram.
“Radical responsibility means asking: What am I still avoiding in my healing? And am I ready to face it—scary, messy, and all?”
This Is Bigger Than Getting Pregnant
Yes, you want a baby. Desperately. But you’re also being called into a deeper level of self-healing—for you, and for the soul waiting to come through you.
Some babies are picky. They want an emotionally clear runway before they land. They’re asking you to do the work now so they don’t have to carry it later.
This isn’t punishment. It’s preparation. And if you’re reading this, you’re already being tapped on the shoulder.
Your Next Step
You’re not broken. You’re just disconnected from your inner knowing. It’s time to drop the shame and pick up the mirror. Look deeper. Ask better questions. And trust that your body’s delays are not denials—they’re divine detours.
If this resonated like a punch and a hug, it’s time to go deeper.
👉 Listen to the full episode here: The Soul Contracts That Could Be Blocking Your Pregnancy for the raw, soul-level conversation that started this all. Let’s uncover what’s really holding you back—and how to move forward.
You’re not alone. And your baby? They’re rooting for you, too.
Let's Do This Together 💚
Monica
Listen up, lovelies: Everything I share about health, diet, or fertility magic is my opinion. Yep, it’s all based on years of trial and error, study, reading, listening, and side-eyeing the nonsense out there. What worked for me might be a jackpot for you—or it might be a total flop. Bodies are weird like that. 🤷♀️
Let’s get one thing straight: I’m not a doctor, nutritionist, dietitian, or any other kind of licensed health wizard. If you need medical advice, run—don’t walk—to an actual qualified professional. Don’t come back here saying Monique told you to eat kale for breakfast, lunch, and dinner, okay?
As for the products I mention, they’re either what I used during my own infertility rollercoaster or what I wish I’d known about back then. No guarantees, no promises, and absolutely no refunds on your hope budget if it doesn’t work out.
Now that we’ve cleared that up, proceed with curiosity and, above all, discernment. You’ve got this. 💪✨
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Full transcript:
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Hello, beautiful, and welcome to the Finding Fertility podcast.
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Monica, your mentor in uncovering the hidden layers of your fertility journey. Together, we'll discover the right path for you within the six essential steps to creating the family of your dreams. We'll ditch the overwhelm, tune into your intuition, and build a vibrant foundation for your fertility. Whether it's through gut health, subconscious healing, or energetic alignment, you can unlock your body's natural power to get and stay pregnant.
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Your fertility journey is all about radical responsibility and deeply believing that your body is on your side. It's time to stay consistent, embrace trust, surrender, and create the transformation you deserve. Finding fertility does not diagnose, prescribe, or treat any fertility issues. What we do is empower you to take control of your health by uncovering the root causes holding you back.
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Do this together. Happy Friday. Oh, welcome back to another episode of Finding Fertility. I'm your host, Monica Cox, and I'm so honored you are here becoming the conscious mama you were born to be. I'm super excited to have a special guest on. Welcome, Katie. Thank you so much for having me. I'm really excited. Yeah, my pleasure. For those who don't know you, just tell us a little bit about who you are and what you do. So I'm a medical and spiritual intuitive.
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and I'm also a licensed counselor. I've been doing this work in some form for over 35 years, which sounds terrifying, but it's true. And I work rather differently than most other medical intuitives in that with just a name and an age, I am able to develop a four-page report. It's very detailed about a person's entire life, physical, emotional, and spiritual. And I create intuitive soul painting.
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about their life also. And then before a meeting with them, I send that. And then during our meeting, we go over the report, and I explain the painting. I get a lot more information from my guides about the person's life. And we look at things like root causes for things that aren't working out, how to develop strengths that are already there, teaching people how to connect to their intuition in their bodies and
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all sorts of other things, and develop a plan moving forward. Yeah, that's really amazing. And that's not new here. I have a really good friend and a colleague called Abigail White, and we consult together, and she can do the same amazing thing that just by tapping into a name and a birthday, we can really collect some information that there's some times that you wouldn't be able to see.
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Here on this physical earth, right? We've uncovered soul contracts not to have children, which is like so important to know as you're moving through these things, especially when you're feeling like you're doing everything right. There's this like little layer that you can't feel like you can break through. But this client was older. And instead of taking that information and being disheartened, she was like, all right, let's change it.
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because as you know, contracts can be trained, sorry, contracts can be changed. And it is just important to have that knowledge and have that where worth of like, okay, what do I need to do? What level do I need to go to? And I'm willing to do it on a physical level and on a soulful level. What are some of your things that you see in this journey that
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aren't really able to be seen by the medical doctors. Yeah, so many things. I really love working with people on their fertility journeys because you can give people hope and it's so exhausting, as you said, to try everything and get let down so many times and then the losses with miscarriages and it's just, it's so exhausting and expensive, right? There's just so much to it.
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What will come up in my reports are things like illnesses that need to be addressed before you can have a healthy pregnancy, for example, or things that you can pass on to your child, like Lyme disease can get passed on in utero. Or even hereditary things like LR Stanlose, which is a hypermobility disorder, but it affects the entire body. So knowing that about you,
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helps you to have a healthier pregnancy and avoid complications. And then also, since it's a genetic disorder, you can look for that in your child and help them along the way. So preventing problems, things like relationship issues that people don't want to deal with or they're afraid to deal with, problems within laws, maybe they need to learn to set boundaries with them or with their spouse.
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or partner, doesn't have to be spouse, partner in order for them to have a happy life and the family to move forward. He said things that, grief that they haven't really dealt with or maybe, I was working with someone the other day who had an abortion early on in her life and she felt so much guilt because here she is now trying to get pregnant and thinking,
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Did I do something to deserve this? Am I a bad person? So many of those types of things that they don't always come to the surface, and it's not always things that you talk about or even remember. Yeah, exactly. mean, a lot of my work that I'm doing now is uncovering those hidden pieces and using the intuitive abilities of ,like, okay, tell me what's gone on in life.
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Right? And you know, oh, I had this car accident, and then my period stopped. Okay, whoa, whoa, whoa, let's stop there. You know, let's dive in. They're like, no, no, my doctor said that wouldn't affect it. And I'm like, well, what do you think? You know, they're like, yeah, no, I do. Okay, let's follow that intuition. Let's follow that lead. And what kind of energy are we storing in our body that literally can be blocking fertility?
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Society has done a really good job at, you know, subcategorizing our bodies. And as you know, these women who are coming to us saying, I've done everything, including IVF and all these things, it's still not quote unquote working. It's like, are you willing to look somewhere else? Are you willing to be radically responsible? Because that's what it takes to get to that next level of health and moving through these blocks.
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because if you're not willing to look the other way, you'll never see it. Yeah, and including dealing with childhood trauma and pain. And I've had people who were unconsciously afraid that they'd be like their mom, who was abusive or abandoned them or things like that, or that they were unconsciously married to their dad because they saw some characteristics in their partner.
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you know, that was like their dad that they didn't like. So it's kind of going there with the pain and that fear that doesn't feel good for anybody. Yeah. And we've been taught to avoid and that it doesn't matter. Just push it aside. You know, a lot of us were raised by boomers who were raised by the silent generation, you know, so you can see the kind of trickle-down effect. And now we have this consciousness.
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of like, well, that didn't matter. They were just doing the best that they can, but we don't realize that that got all imprinted on our nervous system. And that's how we're operating. Your nervous system is your blueprint. And if you don't go into that energetic field or whatever you want to call it, it's going to just be harder to move through life. We get a lot of questions like, well, the crackhead on the side of the street, God bless her soul, or my drunk cousin.
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they got pregnant so easily, why do I have to do it? So what are your thoughts to as why there's a group of women, I believe, that are being called to go that next level to heal things that they see other people not have to quote unquote heal to get pregnant? That's a really great question that no one has ever asked me. That's awesome. So I think what I see
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even in this current generation or kids or things like that is that they are a lot more willing to look at the truth and to speak up and to not tolerate crap and to be the generation cycle breakers, you know, to not allow some of that stuff that went on that they knew was not okay. And so a lot of the people that I work with and couples, to,o who are dealing with fertility stuff,
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They seem to be pretty evolved spiritually and emotionally, and going through the stuff and doing this work and all, it's part of their spiritual journey. And they all say like so many good things came out of this that will shape me into being a different kind of parent or a better parent, that I would have or having more sympathy or understanding, or empathy.
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I feel like, and my guides tell me this all the time, that they need kind of that extra shaping because they're going to be raising these really powerful kids who are not going to tolerate bad things that are happening in the world and that are going to be making the world a better place. So I don't know if you've seen anything like that. Yeah, yeah.
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deeply believe that there is a wave of souls that are, yeah, just not coming down for the bullshit. They're like, hey, mom and dad, hopefully, you know, clear this so I can have a childhood that shapes to the best ability, right? We're not talking about being perfect. I definitely wasn't, you know, my journey was more physical if
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if we're gonna put it that way, I did all the physical things to have my children, and it was actually motherhood and entrepreneurship that pushed me into the more energetic part of it because I had all the conscious knowledge. I was doing everything right, and there wasn't this pure joy and pure happiness that you think is gonna land when you finally have your children. You know, it was very apparent that I had a lot of inner work to do.
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And I truly believe that the mothers who are willing, because everyone can do it, right? But the mothers who are willing to keep going through the trenches and just up-lovingly themselves. Remember, I got to like year five.
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I was like, what more do I have to do? You know, and now looking back with hindsight, I can say, okay, I understand why I had to go through that because it gave me this extra level of knowledge that I not only needed for my own journey, but when I realized that this is what I was supposed to be doing in the world, I can then say to women, hey, I know you think you're doing everything right.
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but I thought so too, and I was missing this little piece here or missing that little piece here, and they can apply that to their own journey. So if you're willing to continuously show up for yourself really, because at the end of the day, is the baby's the cherry on top, right? There's obviously a lot of spirit baby talk now. I definitely have a view of what spirit babies are, but I would love to hear.
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What you see, what you feel, what you've connected with when we're talking about spirit babies. So for me, it has a lot of different meanings. It can be speaking to the child that you miscarried or had an abortion or something like that. So a baby in spirit. It can be the baby in your belly. It can be your little infant.
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it can be the child who hasn't come into your belly space yet, or also who, maybe, and this is something else to talk about, who you were meant to adopt or foster that child as well. So I've read all of those different circumstances, and it's always really fascinating to me because when I start connecting with that, I find that the majority of people also have
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gotten those inclinations, or maybe they have dreams about them, or sort of knew it in their heart, you know, some kind of confirming some of the things that they already know, which is really nice. And I like to tell parents that to encourage them to use their intuition, because ultimately the spirit maybe wants to connect with them way more than they want to connect with me, some stranger, right? I'm just a conduit. So I teach them how to do that.
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But it's lovely in so many ways because it's really healing. It gives them some concrete information. It helps them maybe shape, helps with like some patience. Cause I mean, I have no patience, so I'm not judging anybody else. But okay, this is here. It's, we're waiting. This is why. And I find that those spirit babies also give me a lot of information about maybe the fertility situation.
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or to avoid complications with pregnancies or different things like that. It's such a fascinating process. And sometimes it can be all of the above because there's, like I said, that guilt about maybe did I do something to cause that miscarriage, which of course, no, there's all those feelings about it. So it helps to resolve a lot of that stuff. But I just find it's a source of hope.
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inspiration, healing, and it can kind of give you a little bit of an insight of starting to parent before your baby's even born. So to kind of get to know the personality and maybe think about, well, how much of me is like that little person, or what do I need to do, or do I need to adjust any of my ideas or views to help this person come into the world?
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I also think, too, when we say spirit babies that we have this like ideal that it's this new, it's helpless and all that, but I truly believe these souls are pretty advanced, especially the ones that are waiting for their mothers to get their act together. So when you're connecting with them and when you're dreaming about them, know that it's that vibrational match. They're already there, they already know, and they're just waiting for you to meet that match or potentially...
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They want to come when they want to come, right? Like we think we're in control, and like, we want our baby at this date. Well, you're, you might have a sassy baby, you know, baby in quotes or a sassy, advanced soul going, nope, I want to come at this time. What are your thoughts on that? I totally agree with you. They are very advanced. Are you, you know, they've been here multiple times already. They're here to teach.
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And I've even, I one of my more profound situations, was I was working with a woman who was pretty deep into bulimia and really struggling. And I had been working with her for a while. She was making lots and lots of progress, and she was at a good place, and she was, were trying to get pregnant. And I felt pretty good about her.
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physical health at that time, she was seeing a doctor and doing all the things, and getting all checked out. And I was trying to teach her how to talk to her baby and her intuition. And she just could not relate to that at all. So I said, has there been anyone in your life that you felt unconditional love from? And she started crying, and she said her grandmother who had passed. So I was...
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doing some role play with her, and all of a sudden her grandmother started to come through me. So I was channeling her grandmother. It was the coolest thing. And I was able to describe where she played as a little girl, what it looked like, what her favorite doll was, all things, know, stuff her grandmother had only said to her. And so to me, that was sort of helping with the spirit baby communication. Because I felt like it was a baby who was ready.
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And it was literally a month later, and I saw her again, and she said, I finally got pregnant, and they had been trying for four years. So they, the spirit babies, are also like, they're a conduit to every protective loving force that's also looking out for us. Yeah, it's super cool. That's so amazing. Yeah. It's the smallest things that could make the biggest difference.
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Um, I do want to touch and get your opinion on, you know, I've had clients have spirit baby readings, be told that their baby is right next to them. They're just waiting, and it doesn't happen. Um, and I have two places we can go with this. One of the death grip.
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that we put on a fertility journey. And even if we have all the information in the world, including that your baby's right there, that there's still this aspect of your own personal journey of surrender and peace and love within you, once again matching that vibration. And also of the fact that we are the humans here. We are the ones who are
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prone to the subconscious patterning and falling back into old habits, even when we have everything that we need. What's your kind of thoughts around that?
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One thing I will say is it's really important to work with reputable people. And that's not putting anyone down by any means, but there are reviews out there and people who have been checked out. So be careful who you work with, not just with Spirit Baby stuff, but with anything at all, right?
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And so that's a big thing for sure. But I think that, like you said, it's really up to us to make the changes that we need to make to be ready to bring these very important people into the world. And so... it may be that you're just not, that you're too afraid to do the work that you need to do, you know, or not quite ready yet, or any number of things and.
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Also, I really want to say one of the most important things about what I tried to do is I don't want anyone substituting my intuition for theirs. Exactly. And my guides are always really, really accurate. But if something doesn't resonate with someone, I really want to explore that with them and encourage them to connect to intuition and be like, okay, there's a reason for that. Or maybe it's symbolic or maybe it's going to happen. Or maybe I was
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getting information for the next person I'm gonna work with or something, know what I mean? But like, it's very important to be your own, your own guru, your own, you know, person and not put everything and all your hope and dreams and everything into somebody else. So. Yeah.
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It's hard when we're moving through this journey and we're learning discernment and intuition, and we, you know, hand on heart, when I used IVF, I was literally putting all of my empowerment to the white coat because I wasn't trusting. I didn't know on many different fields. But the moment you start practicing, right?
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Because it's you're not going to get perfect. Hand up here, right? You know, in my first failed IVF appointment, my guides were like, this is BS, don't listen, you can improve your situation, you'll figure it out. And at that point, I didn't even know I had guides, right? Like, I just thought I was hearing voices in my head. But I listened and I went a different path. When I got led intuitively led because there was no medical reason to check for autoimmune markers.
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sought out a clinic, I got talked out of it. I didn't follow my intuition and demand the testing, had another failed IVF, demanded the testing, lo and behold, there were my markers. So you have to be graceful with yourself when you're moving through this using guides and coaches and doctors, but in empowerment, in your empowerment.
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You know, I say the same thing to my clients. If I say something that does not resonate, let's find a path that resonates with you because that means you're following your intuition and you're actually going to show up and do it, because I can give you the exact plan. But if it doesn't align with you, then what's the point? You're not going to do it. And that's what this journey is all about is you showing up for yourself consistently over and over and over again.
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And when you are able to use that discernment and that intuition, your guides here on earth and above you only amplify your journey. Yeah, I totally agree with you. And it can get really hard because I was working with someone, I think it was last month, and they'd been trying for a really long time. And I was clearly hearing that while they may
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also have their own child, they were really meant to adopt, and that they were children out there who they would resonate with because of their unique backgrounds, and that they were meant to raise these really precious kids. And thankfully, I had a good relationship with this person and felt comfortable because it's just so hard to say that to people.
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And so I introduced the idea and I said, hey, you know, what if I'm kind of hearing this as a possibility, not ruling out that you can't have your own biological kids, but what would you say if I told you, you know, what I'm hearing? And they said that they had actually thought about that themselves, and that had come to them, and that they were glad that I brought it up because it was very,
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It was hard to talk about and hard to think about, but me saying it out loud helped them to then be able to consider that possibility and think, you know what, maybe I don't have to go through all of this expense and hell and pain and continue to try. Maybe my little person is right there waiting for me in a different way than I thought. Yeah, exactly. I have a...
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pretty old podcast, it was quite a few years ago, but it's all about how a mutual, or actually this woman, randomly on social media, and we connected, literally manifested her adoption without like any paperwork. And the kicker, too, was her husband was Filipino and she was white, and this baby was half Filipino, half white. Like, I mean, it was crazy, and I just kept saying to her, was like,
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Do you realize that you did this? She's like, oh, I guess I did. I'm like, no, like, you don't realize how powerful you are that you dropped all the shoulds of this is how I have to get to it, whether it be natural IVF or adoption. And you just surrendered and talked about it. it just happened. Like, it's just such an amazing story. And I'll put it down in the show notes if anybody wants to go listen to it. But.
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It is, it's that, you know, that confirmation that coaches can give to you and intuitives and even doctors, you know, if they're in alignment with you, like, Hey, that's actually what I was thinking. Thank you. Thank you for confirming that. And I can follow that with more confidence now. Yeah, no, definitely. Definitely. And people, they're wiser than they think. They're wiser than they get themselves ready for. And maybe it's painful to come up with some,
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to some of the realizations that you need to address, but avoiding that pain just makes the journey longer. And so if you can, you're already in pain, it's already hard, right? It's already like a start to something else. So if you can allow some other types of pain that will, in the long run, make things easier. Yeah, exactly.
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It's the expectations we put on ourselves that mess up our whole reality. It's really harsh to say, and I had to go through this my lesson, but it's, you're making everything up. Everything is made up. And so if you start telling yourself a different story, you can have a better life just by doing that. So, so, so true. Yes. And our own agenda is right, that we
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You know, and I can be guilty of this too, control freak. Okay, this is what I think I want, or this is the way things are supposed to be, or in this timeframe or whatever. And that agenda becomes your truth and your reality. And you push so hard for that, that other wonderful things that may have happened, there's no room for that. So, you know, yeah, it's, we've all done it. Yeah, exactly. So, what are a few techniques that you help your clients
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really tap into that intuition and gain that ability to connect with either a spirit baby or maybe even someone like a grandparent or a parent that they would like to receive support and guidance from. We are going to end today's episode here. Please come back next week for the second half of this amazing interview with Katie.
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Have a beautiful weekend, and we'll see you next Friday on another episode of Finding Fertility.
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