Week 6: Why Slowing Down Can Feel Unsafe During Your Fertility Journey
There is a version of you that never stops moving.
Not because she has to.
Because stopping feels unsafe.
She is organized. Reliable. Admired.
She is the one who carries it all.
And she is tired in a way sleep does not fix.
Overdoing rarely looks like chaos.
It looks like competence.
It looks like s...
Week 5: Why Surrender Feels So Threatening When You Want a Baby During Infertility & IVF
Control is rarely loud.
It is quiet.
Polite.
Productive.
It looks like responsibility.
It feels like survival.
Most women I speak to do not identify as controlling.
They identify as careful.
Committed.
Doing their best.
And they are.
But there is a moment when effort stops serving life.
When the nervo...
Week 4: The Illusion of Control in Infertility & IVF and Why Less Is Not Giving Up
Control rarely looks like force.
It looks like responsibility.
It looks like being proactive.
It looks like fixing something before it becomes a problem.
It looks like love.
And for many women on a fertility journey, control has worked.
Until it didn’t.
There is a moment when the body starts asking...
Week 3 :: The Subconscious Patterns Running Your Fertility Journey on Autopilot
You don’t feel stuck because you are doing it wrong.
You feel stuck because you are doing it automatically.
Most women I work with are not reckless or disconnected. They are efficient. Capable. Always one step ahead. Their nervous system learned very early that safety lives in anticipation.
So co...
Week 2: Fertility Burnout Nobody Talks About: The Cost of Quiet Control
Control rarely looks like control.
It looks like responsibility.
It looks like maturity.
It looks like being the one who keeps everything from falling apart.
Most women do not experience control as force.
They experience it as protection.
And the nervous system agrees.
Staying on top of things feel...
Week 1: Infertility & IVF Burnout, Control & the Slow Shifts That Actually Change Everything
Week 1: Noticing Where Control Hides – Just becoming aware of those subtle control patterns.
There is a season in this journey that does not come with a clear label.
It is not the crisis.
It is not the breaking point.
It is not the big decision.
It is the in between.
The part where you are still s...
The End of Infertility Overdoing: A New Frequency for Fertility Healing :: 20 Weeks of Noticing
There is a moment in this journey that no one prepares you for.
Not the diagnosis.
Not the failed cycle.
Not even the waiting.
It is the moment when you realize you are doing everything.
And still feel wired.
Tired.
Braced.
Your body is not collapsing.
It is holding.
Holding the pace.
Holding the hope....
