Most Women Dealing With Infertility Will Get Pregnant

This might be the most grounding thing I can say to you.

Most women who experience infertility will get pregnant.

Maybe not on the timeline they imagined.
Maybe not in the way they envisioned.
Maybe not without medical assistance.
Maybe after losses, detours, grief, or surrender they never planned on learning.

But for most women, it will happen.

This is not optimism.
This is not manifestation language.
This is not me bypassing the reality of how painful this journey can be.

This is reality.

Your fertility is innate.
Period.

It does not disappear because you are anxious.
It does not vanish because you are controlling.
It does not evaporate because you are not spiritually evolved enough.
It is not revoked because you did not surrender properly or heal every wound.

Most women do not become perfect versions of themselves before getting pregnant.

Most women do not resolve every fear.
Most women do not release all control.
Most women do not fully regulate their nervous system.
Most women do not reach enlightenment.

And they still get pregnant.

Many use medical assistance.
Many resist parts of the journey.
Many grieve deeply and still keep moving forward.
Many do everything “wrong” according to the internet.

And their bodies still respond.

This matters because fear has quietly taken over the fertility space.

Fear disguised as protocols.
Fear disguised as pressure.
Fear disguised as “if you do not fix this, it will never happen.”

That is not true.

What I believe instead is this.

Pregnancy is not the reward for becoming healed.
It is not the prize for doing the inner work correctly.
It is not withheld until you are calm enough, surrendered enough, or evolved enough.

Your body is not waiting for your perfection.

But.

And this is important.

Just because most women will get pregnant does not mean the journey has to be as painful as it often becomes.

And that is where the deeper work comes in.

Not to make pregnancy happen.
But to change how you experience the journey itself.

Most women do not need fixing.
But most journeys are asking for something deeper.

Not because something is wrong.
But because something is being revealed.

Infertility has a way of amplifying everything that already exists beneath the surface.

Patterns of over functioning.
Patterns of self abandonment.
Patterns of urgency and pressure.
Patterns of control that once kept you safe.
Patterns of staying busy to avoid feeling.

This does not mean you caused infertility.
It means infertility shines a light.

And here is what most women could avoid if they were willing to go deeper.

They could avoid years of white knuckling their way through life while waiting for a result.

They could avoid turning their body into a project instead of a relationship.

They could avoid living in constant comparison, measuring their worth against other women’s timelines and announcements.

They could avoid the quiet trauma of staying in fight or flight for years at a time.

They could avoid losing trust in themselves.

They could avoid outsourcing their intuition to Google, forums, and protocols that drown out their own inner knowing.

They could avoid believing that stress is something to push through instead of listen to.

The deeper work is not about forcing surrender.

It is about safety.

Safety in your body.
Safety in your nervous system.
Safety in slowing down without guilt.
Safety in listening instead of overriding.

It is about awareness, not achievement.

Awareness of how you speak to yourself.
Awareness of how often you rush.
Awareness of how disconnected you may have become from your own rhythms.

Not to fix yourself.
But to come home to yourself.

And here is the part that matters most.

Doing this work does not guarantee pregnancy.

And not doing it does not prevent pregnancy.

That is the truth most spaces are afraid to say.

The work is not a transaction.

You do not heal in order to earn a baby.

You heal because living disconnected from yourself is exhausting.
You heal because your nervous system deserves relief.
You heal because this chapter is shaping you whether you want it to or not.

For some women, pregnancy arrives first and the healing follows.

For others, the healing comes first and pregnancy follows.

For some, they happen at the same time.

And for some, the journey changes shape entirely.

None of these paths mean you failed.

None of them mean your body betrayed you.

None of them mean you were not enough.

Your fertility is innate.

And your humanity is allowed.

If this journey is asking anything of you, it is not perfection.

It is presence.

Presence with your body.
Presence with your emotions.
Presence with the parts of you that are tired of holding everything together.

Not to rush the outcome.

But to soften the path.

That is the work I believe most journeys are asking for.

Not because you need it to get pregnant.

But because you deserve peace while you are waiting. And more so … peace in motherhood.

And because no matter how your story unfolds, you are still whole.

You always were.

Let's Do This Together 💚

Monica 

Listen up, lovelies: Everything I share about health, diet, or fertility magic is my opinion. Yep, it’s all based on years of trial and error, study, reading, listening, and side-eyeing the nonsense out there. What worked for me might be a jackpot for you—or it might be a total flop. Bodies are weird like that. 🤷‍♀️

Let’s get one thing straight: I’m not a doctor, nutritionist, dietitian, or any other kind of licensed health wizard. If you need medical advice, run—don’t walk—to an actual qualified professional. Don’t come back here saying Monique told you to eat kale for breakfast, lunch, and dinner, okay?

As for the products I mention, they’re either what I used during my own infertility rollercoaster or what I wish I’d known about back then. No guarantees, no promises, and absolutely no refunds on your hope budget if it doesn’t work out.

Now that we’ve cleared that up, proceed with curiosity and, above all, discernment. You’ve got this. 💪✨

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