The Truth About Emotional Healing, Chronic Symptoms & What’s Blocking Your Fertility Success Part One with Tania Khazaal
The Real Root-Cause Isn’t Your Uterus – It’s Your Suppressed Self
Let’s get something straight: your body isn’t broken. But it is overwhelmed. Not just from the IVF trauma or autoimmune flares that no one seems to take seriously, but from decades of unspoken resentment, bottled-up grief, and chasing worth through productivity.
Tania, the Herbalist in this week’s episode, puts it bluntly: most women are stuck in emotional survival mode, running on the fumes of caretaking and self-abandonment. And that chronic suppression? It’s not “just stress.” It’s inflammation. It’s hormonal chaos. It’s the slow, silent sabotage of your nervous system.
“Suppression is more dangerous than wine and gluten combined.”
You Can’t Heal While Lying to Yourself
Let’s talk about the lies. The fake smiles at brunch. The “I’m fine” to your partner while silently wondering if your marriage will survive another failed round. The way you’ve convinced yourself you should be grateful, even when you’re exhausted and angry and done.
Tanya shares a moment that stopped me in my tracks:
“If I stayed in that relationship, I was going to end up just as sick as my mom.”
That's the kind of clarity that only comes when you stop pretending everything’s okay. Because it’s not. And pretending is poison.
Progress Isn’t a Spa Day — It’s Purpose
You don’t need another cleanse. You need progress. Real, soul-deep progress. The kind that lights you up from the inside out, not because your to-do list is complete, but because your life finally feels like yours again.
When Tania stopped outsourcing her worth to productivity and started chasing purpose, her body responded. Anxiety lifted. Insomnia vanished. The chaos calmed.
This isn’t about becoming a new woman. It’s about remembering who the hell you were before infertility made you forget.
“Fertility healing starts when you stop outsourcing your power.”
The Breaking Point: When Fertility Burnout Becomes a Full-Body Scream
You know when your life feels like a never-ending series of unfortunate events? A sudden bill, a minor accident, or sickness for you or your kid? That’s not just bad luck. It’s your body’s desperate attempt to get your attention. Think of it as the universe, or call it God, fate, your gut, flashing a neon sign screaming, “Hey, you! Stop. Reset.”
This is what I call fertility burnout on steroids. When you’re trapped in the chaos comfort zone, your body starts sending you all the distress signals: autoimmune flare-ups, depression, snapping at everyone like a feral cat, or simply shutting down. IVF trauma isn’t just about failed cycles. It’s the nervous system running on empty, fighting a war it never signed up for. The problem? Most women keep pushing, ignoring that warning bell.
Finding Your Purpose: The Fertility Game-Changer
This might sting, but if you’re just surviving, not thriving, your body knows it. The slow death of joy, of purpose, is one of the biggest drivers behind fertility struggles and autoimmune symptoms. Your body isn’t broken; it’s screaming for a reason to wake up every morning.
Purpose doesn’t have to be some grand life mission. It can be as simple as something that lights your soul on fire, something bigger than just the daily grind. When you find that spark, whether it’s art, business, teaching, or just something deeply meaningful, you build resilience from the inside out. And that’s the secret sauce for healing the nervous system and, yes, improving fertility.
Kids Will Break You — And That’s a Good Thing
Spoiler alert: having kids doesn’t magically fix your inner crap. It just magnifies it 10X. If you’re thinking a baby will erase your emotional baggage, brace yourself. Motherhood (and fatherhood) are like emotional MRI scans that reveal every old wound, every pattern you never dealt with.
Your kids are going to challenge you, break you, and rebuild you, whether you like it or not. That’s why working on your inner world before conception is a game-changer. Otherwise, you risk handing down that unresolved chaos to the next generation.
“When you’re stuck in survival mode for too long, your body screams at you. Bad luck, accidents, sickness, these aren’t coincidences. They’re your soul’s way of forcing you to listen.”
Final Takeaway: You’re Not Broken, You’re Just Disconnected
Look, this journey isn’t about more pills or more appointments. It’s about rewiring your nervous system, getting honest with your default energy, and finding your purpose beyond the baby dream. You’re not broken. You’re just disconnected from the deeper wisdom inside you, the one that’s been trying to get your attention through every ‘bad luck’ moment, every burst of anger, and every sleepless night.
There is hope. There is a way to reset. It starts with radical responsibility for your own healing, not just the physical stuff, but the emotional, spiritual, and energetic layers, too.
Ready to stop the burnout and start listening to your body’s true signals?
Listen to the full episode here: The Truth About Emotional Healing, Chronic Symptoms & What’s Blocking Your Fertility Success Part One with Tania Khazaal and start your nervous system reset today.
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Monica
Listen up, lovelies: Everything I share about health, diet, or fertility magic is my opinion. Yep, it’s all based on years of trial and error, study, reading, listening, and side-eyeing the nonsense out there. What worked for me might be a jackpot for you—or it might be a total flop. Bodies are weird like that. 🤷♀️
Let’s get one thing straight: I’m not a doctor, nutritionist, dietitian, or any other kind of licensed health wizard. If you need medical advice, run—don’t walk—to an actual qualified professional. Don’t come back here saying Monique told you to eat kale for breakfast, lunch, and dinner, okay?
As for the products I mention, they’re either what I used during my own infertility rollercoaster or what I wish I’d known about back then. No guarantees, no promises, and absolutely no refunds on your hope budget if it doesn’t work out.
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00:00
Hello, beautiful, and welcome to the Finding Fertility podcast.
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Monica, your mentor in uncovering the hidden layers of your fertility journey. Together, we'll discover the right path for you within the six essential steps to creating the family of your dreams. We'll ditch the overwhelm, tune into your intuition, and build a vibrant foundation for your fertility. Whether it's through gut health, subconscious healing, or energetic alignment, you can unlock your body's natural power to get and stay pregnant.
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Your fertility journey is all about radical responsibility and deeply believing that your body is on your side. It's time to stay consistent, embrace trust, surrender, and create the transformation you deserve. Finding fertility does not diagnose, prescribe, or treat any fertility issues. What we do is empower you to take control of your health by uncovering the root causes
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holding you back. Let's do this together. Happy Friyay y'all. Welcome back to another episode of Finding Fertility. I'm your host, Monica Cox, and I am so honored you are here becoming the conscious mama you were born to be. Today we have Tanya, the herbalist, on in her wisdom for us. We were obviously having some pre-pug hash chat and we just, it was flowing, so I didn't want to stop it.
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So you're gonna hear a little bit of inside chat and then I'll jump into welcoming her to the podcast and we'll flow from there. So without further to do, let's get to today's episode. An autoimmune and she's got Lyme disease. And she tried, when I say for years, every single thing, every naturopath told her, US doctors, Canadian doctors, all of the stuff, nothing was working with her symptoms. When she started to...
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trying to figure out who she was outside of a stay at home mom. Yeah. And be able to create more of a purpose for her and that distraction of like, oh, I meant for something greater. It's not just externalizing that her symptoms. It's actually forgot about her symptoms. Yeah. Why do you think that is? One of the biggest reasons why women have, it's probably a podcast question, but I think it's good. One of the biggest reasons why women suffer with autoimmune more than men, like a significant amount more, I want to say 75 % of women, if not more.
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is I believe 100 % because they lack progress, internal progress. That means that they're running on autopilot of taking care of everybody else and the illusion of busyness in their day-to-day life, but never fully progressing themselves. And when I say progressing, that means regularly working on their self-care, like just happiness self-care, not like, I have to go get a spot because now I've checked off self-care off of my list. I'm talking about like genuine progress where
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you have a goal, you meet that goal. Like meeting goals creates such a dopamine rush for people and it creates that happiness. And then also achieving those milestones, it gives you a sense of purpose. And when you have that sense of purpose in life, you kind of go about life differently. You mother differently, your relationships, you approach differently. And then because of that, your body is no longer in survival mode, which is...
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the threshold that most people just stay on because they think it's normal. And that survival mode literally depletes your entire immune system. It's releasing so much cortisol to your body and that will keep the symptoms there. It'll keep the inflammation. It'll keep all the issues in your body. Yeah. Well, the podcast has already started because you're on fire. So welcome to the podcast. Welcome to Finding Fertility. Introduce yourself because I know our listeners are going to be like, who is this? I love it.
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So, I mean, most people know me as Tanya the herbalist. My name is Tanya Cazal. And I stick around with Tanya the herbalist because I found, to be honest with didn't know herbalism was a thing. I didn't even know the term existed until I watched my mom on her deathbed from too many pharmaceuticals. And I'm talking about narcotics like oxy, ziplocone, the whole nine yards for over a decade. And doctors just left her on her deathbed. And I get like my drive and my ambition. I get that from her. So to see that person on their deathbed would no longer talking.
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you know, no longer coherent, falling asleep in middle of conversations. It took me into a very dark path. And I'm talking about, obviously I had my own issues at the same time, but I had chronic anxiety, Monica, for like two years where I would puke every single morning. And I had insomnia. Like I never slept at night to the point that I was like, oh, I guess I'm just that person that has insomnia. And then I had endometriosis, right? Which is a whole other topic. I endometriosis, which I totally believe is induced by the HPV vaccine, which is conversation for another day.
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But I had IBS, I had indigestion, all of the things. And so I got to a dark place and I said, okay, like what now? Like it can't get any worse than this. And so I decided to take some time off work, which by the way, I was at the peak of my corporate career. Like I'm talking about me and my husband paid for it to travel to Barcelona, Vienna, all of the things like Malta.
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It was paid for life was supposed to be great on the external front, but internally I was dying a slow death and I took time off work. I learned meditation for the first time ever in a sense of just like, I got to ground myself. I really got to ground myself. And it's like, I had an aha moment where I do believe that when you quiet yourself long enough, it's like that inner voice starts to get louder. And usually it's whispering to you, but it got louder for me. And it was like, there must be something natural that I could do for her.
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I went pen to paper, got my very first book on medicinal herbs. She became my guinea pig. She got off of her narcotics. The doctors couldn't believe it. And then I just fell in love with it. And I was like, oh my goodness, I got to find out about, oh, herbalism is a thing. I'm going to study it. I'm going to do all of this stuff. And so that's how my journey into this natural world started. And then of course that evolved into a place of, you know, I healed my own issues. Like I no longer had anxiety. I no longer had.
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Insomnia,
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when you look at how the human body is just this natural healing machine and if you just give it the right things, it will do what you want it to do. I know that you've had some big life issues in your own personal life. Can you look back now and kind of see, yeah, tick that, that led to this, this led to that, that led to this and all these chronic issues piled up until you hit your rock bottom.
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and then you could start unpacking what was going on. I first want to say I love your Defender Shield headphones. funny that you say that because I personally think and I've uncovered it like crazy and this is like my baby right now is relationships and communication. And the reason why I say that is because one of my most toxic relationships that I was in
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It's like I had an aha moment where I was like, oh my God, if I stay, I'm going to end up sick like my mom. And that made me realize that most I truly believe most of that happens like that aha moment is in the conversations that you're not having. People don't realize how much suppression is going to destroy your body, probably more than drinking alcohol, which obviously I don't believe in and I don't drink alcohol, but I'm just saying like,
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We think about these external things that we avoid in order to live a healthy and happy life, but that suppression is far more dangerous. Or just being around that negative energy, they're pulling you down, they're destroying your intuition, they're making you doubt your own inner voice. All of these things, that made me realize that that had more of an impact on my health than anything else that I was doing. Because that suppression, whether it's pursuing your passion and your purpose,
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whether it's in the relationship that you're in or the conversations that you're avoiding with your loved ones or the conversations you haven't had and cut people off and all of the things. I would say that, like those suppressed expression and connections and communication is the most, if that's even a word, untalked about thing in the entire health industry, but I think is one of the biggest driving factors into being unhealed. Yeah, exactly. mean,
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The women that are coming into our lives now, right? They're like mirrors, they're seeing like, okay, we've seen you have done the physical stuff. We know the herbs, we know the supplements, we know the diets, we know the yoga, the meditation, but, but, and I think the reason why that emotion, the frequency, the energy catches up with you is because unlike a drink, it's with you 24 seven. Where drinking or the other inflammation that can get us,
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You know, for most of us, it's a healthy habit. Like, you know, most people listening to this podcast, but those stuck emotions that suck energy is just 24 seven. And I just spent a weekend away in Wales with some friends and it really dawned on me, like really hit me hard. Like everyone's a really good liar. Right? In front of like, there was like almost 30 of us in this group.
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If you weren't having the little side conversations, everyone just thought everyone was all loved up. Everyone's so happy and all that. I'm like, man, we're all just really good liars around this table. And for the people who are, you know, not doing the work or even understand that there's work to be done. Right. That's where you're eventually going to get called out, whether it's with your fertility, your chronic health issue, like your sister with the lime, or maybe in your fifties and sixties.
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where you finally hit that wall, you just can't escape from it. I think it's if people understood the power behind mirror work so much more where they're so scared to face their own inner demons because it's scary and they feel they think that they're going to crumble but it's actually the opposite. And a lot of the times it's obviously our ego and our pride that don't want to admit that my marriage is not where I want it to be.
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My relationship with my loved ones is not where I want it to be. My health is not where I want to be. But God forbid, I know so much about holistic health and healing that I should never say that because then my credibility is going to be doubted. And all of these things versus saying like, I'm human, it's okay. Where's that going to go? I had a client of mine years ago that I worked with and she came to me because had cancer. And she...
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has been for years eating organic. I think she runs like marathon, the kilometer marathon, like every single day or weekly. She's so healthy, super healthy. And she's like, how did I get cancer? And after working with her for a while, it was uncovered that she hasn't spoken to her mom in years. And she didn't think much about it. She was justified in her reason of not speaking with her mother. She was justified.
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But that doesn't mean that she was living in misalignment. And so I asked her a tough question and I bring this up to a lot of people. My husband was abandoned by his mom when he was 14 years old. She lives with us now. So you better believe I made sure that we repaired that relationship because I know it's going to affect you a lot more than you realize. And I had the conversation with her. said, okay, what she did was not right to you. But if she died tomorrow, how are you going to cope? Are you okay with it?
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And I'm the person that gives that tough love. And it kind of just was like, well, I don't really have a choice. And I said, but you do. And so are you okay with it? If you're a hundred percent, I don't care if she died tomorrow, it literally does not affect my life. Okay. But almost rarely does that ever the case. And so it's, pulled her into, let's see it from her perspective. What she did was wrong, but what's her story? How were her parents with her?
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How was her marriage? How was her relationship? What did she do? Because this is her first life too. And we tend to forget about that when it comes to our loved ones. It's their first life too. And it's like in one conversation, Monica, it's like her whole life came before her eyes and she completely broke down and she was like, oh my God, I need to call my mom. I need to call my mom. She went into remission. She went into all of these things. And within a short period of time, she was like, I literally don't have cancer anymore.
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I don't even feel the symptoms. Yeah. mean, the thing is, is you're only going to pattern the way you were taught to pattern. if it's, you get to choose, is it going to be you who breaks it and does the hard work? Because we're not going to sit here and say that it's easy or are you going to pass it on? And that's your two choices. And, and I do believe most people
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try to do better. You know, I can see it in my family, my family on both sides. My parents didn't beat us, which unfortunately my parents both got beaten. And, but I explain my father passed away last year due to not taking care of his own internal BS and, and drinking. But my mom, can have these conversations with now and she was such, she was a middle child of nine and people please her.
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No, it's fine. It's the past. No, it da da da da da. And she couldn't understand that we had a broken relationship even though she was like the dominant parent. And I pointed out one day, I said, do you remember you used to always just say your mother didn't love you and that you were a daddy's girl? I said, do you understand that that's what you taught me? Even though I know you loved me, you couldn't show me.
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the type of motherly love because you never got it yourself. And you always push the male figure because that's what happened in your life. And this like, you know, little emoji head, you know, like just went off on her. And until you have that radical honesty with yourself or someone else brings it up for you and you're willing to look at it, it will just be there, just festering away. And it's your choice.
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when you're getting the physical elements, when you're doing everything right, to be willing to go, okay, I see that there is this different path. What, in your experience, is the breaking point for people when they're finally ready to do that inner work? I mean, I think the breaking point looks different for everyone, of course, but there comes to a point where you feel like it can't get any
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Like I can't... When that feeling... A lot of times people are literally waiting for that breaking point, which a lot of times shows up in a sickness where you're getting like really sick because you're growing the whispers. It turns into a scream and your body kind of shuts down. But a lot of the times it's so subtle too and it's when it's like that I'm waking up with like, oh, I feel unsatisfied. I have anxiety. It's like autopilot. I'm in survival mode. Like, is this all it is? Like the moment you're starting to think like, when am I going to get my breakthrough?
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Is this going to be the life forever? Am I going to catch a break? Like when your mind starts to think that way, you're already hitting that breaking point. You're in survival mode and longer you're in survival mode, you're bound to get sick, autoimmune, go into depression, mental health issues, know, snapping at your partner, snapping at your kids, all of those things. So that's typically what I see. And then, of course, there's the other breaking point where it literally
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is your body screaming at you you have no choice and you're forced into listening. It even shows up, like I'm a strong believer in terms of the energetics. Sometimes it shows up in like, if you notice that things just keep happening because you have bad luck, that's a sign in itself too. Oh, I just got into an accident. Oh, I just got this unexpected bill. Oh, this just happened. Oh, I got sick. Oh, now my kid got sick. Oh, and it's like a constant thing of after thing that you have to deal with and you feel like you can't catch a break.
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That is literally God telling you, hello, I'm trying to get your attention and you're still not paying attention. Yeah, exactly. There's just going to be a sign and symptom again and again and again until you take that responsibility of like, you know, what, how am I acting in the mundane? Because I think everyone's looking through for the breakthrough in the healing sessions and the breath work and the yoga in the herbalism and stuff.
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Those are all essential, right? Finding your perfect modality for you. But when my life radically changed is when someone said like, what's your default energy? What are you thinking and feeling when you're washing the dishes, when you're driving your car, when you're folding your laundry, when you're at work? What stories are you playing out? What ruminations? And I was like, that like, you know, I don't want to raise my hand, but like, it wasn't good.
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And then it dawns just like you say, well, that's what I'm creating. That is what I'm putting out into the world. Yes, I'm doing all the right things, but the reality is that default energy is actually the projection of your life. feel like one of the biggest things that I've noticed is 100 % most people have no idea what their purpose is. And what you love to do for fun is not necessarily a purpose.
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just because you learned about something and want to share about functional medicine or herbalism, but it doesn't mean it's your purpose. And like a lot of the times when you're not pursuing that purpose, it's like you're just slowly dying inside and that slow death will create so many symptoms in your body. And then when I say what is autoimmune, are those tests even accurate? What is it really telling you all of that? It's just more your body telling, like I'm trying to speak to you. I think that the biggest thing that helped my symptoms wasn't even herbalism, though it did.
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build resilience. love my skull cup. I love all those because it's helped me be more vibrant. But I can say that by far the biggest thing was trying to find my purpose and pursuing it where I constantly just felt like I'm so excited for life because I'm building something bigger and better than my current situation. And when people are stagnant, when people are stuck and not progressing, that is going to kill you faster than anything else you can do. And that's why they say stress is the number one killer.
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is because you're no longer excited about life. You're surviving life. You're getting through. I'm just driving my kids, I'm going back home, I'm cooking dinner, winding out, watching TV, going to sleep and repeating it. So we're programmed to want to become better versions of ourselves. And if you're not doing that, it's crazy. And I'm positive that most of those people in that room that you talk about have probably graduated and stopped there and did the same thing on autopilot for so long.
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that they no longer are aware of what their purpose is. And your purpose is not end all be all. Your purpose evolves as you evolve as a person, right? My purpose was herbalism and then it became teaching entrepreneurs how to build their business. And now it's teaching women how to actually find the four pillars from their purpose to their relationships, to their inner world and all of the stuff. And it evolves as you evolve. that's the thing is because you constantly are moving that, it's like that future vision of yourself and what success is.
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And I had someone actually I was on a podcast earlier today and she asked me, what is what what does success mean to you? And and when people ask that what does success mean to you and what does success mean to other people? Almost all the time, people are like, well, success is when I'm able to like, OK, retire from work or success is when I'm making 10K months, 20K months success. And I was like, OK, why?
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Like, what are you going to do with that 10K? What are you going do with that 20K? What are you going to do when you retire? They almost never have an answer. And success to me is like, want to be able to travel the world with my kids so that they can experience that abundance and go around and learn the different things. And success to me is being able to take my parents with me to make sure that they're comfortable and to be able to help the needy in this. OK, so paint the picture of the life that you actually want to live in that success, then reverse engineer it.
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Okay, this is the life that I want, this is success to me, how I'm gonna make it happen, okay? How much money do I need to make to be making this happen? Perfect, how am I gonna make that kind of money? Where do I start? You reverse engineer it and now you have a picture that's so much bigger than you versus monetary based. if people, like honestly, if everyone just did that and worked towards it every single day, even if it's baby steps, they would feel that sense of fulfillment and that sense of fulfillment.
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could honestly probably eliminate so many of the symptoms that people experience. Even just to bring it down, it's just joy. if you're watching, like I always say, pretend your baby's watching you. And when you take that radical honesty, a lot of people, when you get into the thick of a fertility struggle, you lose all joy and love and passion on so many different levels. Right? So yeah, that has all the physical implications.
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But what about that spiritual and that energetic side of you? And as much as that baby or those babies are going to bring you joy, they are not the entire whole fulfillment for most. I don't want to pigeonhole everyone. there's always going to be things that you need to continue to light that fire to be able to show up in motherhood.
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because they have done a very good job to sell motherhood in a different light. And I don't know if you recognize as well, like when my kids came around, I didn't really work on the energetic stuff. My journey was very physical until it wasn't. And it was my kids who started opening up these conscious things like, oh, oh, like.
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That I didn't know that triggered me. Oh, you know, like, that really pisses me off. Where did that come from? Because I consciously don't feel that way. But in my body, I feel rage that you are crying over a red popsicle, not a blue popsicle. Where is that stuck emotion? And then you start unpacking your past, which for a lot of people who are doing everything physically right, that's just the next step.
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Yeah, your kids honestly are going to break you and take you to your knees and make you face your inner demons that you probably avoided for a very long time. And I have seen it. I have worked with clients who have struggled with fertility for years, done IVF, did all the things, finally fall pregnant. And one particular person I'm thinking about, she crashed into such a bad postpartum.
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and the arguments with her and her husband, the issues that they were having and everything like that. It was like.
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Yes, the baby was the best thing that ever happened to you in everything. But if you were just listening to the signs and took that moment in before and say, okay, where needs to be repaired before we bring this child into the world so that this child who's feeding off of me is not carrying this energy, right? And it's so powerful because we feel just like we do when we're growing up and you think that you find that perfect relationship and all your inner wounds are gonna be gone when you find your love, which is actually not true.
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A lot of people think the same thing happens with kids. Yeah. And they think that a kid is going to come, they're to fix my problems. It is going to bring your freaking problems to the surface 10 X. Absolutely. And if you're not dealing with those problems, be ready for that afterwards. And even if you have one kid now, they probably, you probably understand for the listeners, but then the second kid is going to bring up new problems. And the third one and all of the, it's like new shit's coming up. It's getting deeper and deeper inside of you. And so
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It's like for me, just use it as excitement and be like, okay, God loves me so much that he wants me to take a moment, just take a moment and work on myself and find that joy. Like you said, the joy, the play. People, you know how many adults don't even know how to play anymore? Like have that deep belly laugh. That deep belly laugh where you're like, okay, stop, I actually can't breathe. I can't laugh anymore. And they don't. It's like they forget how to play and have that fun. And I think it's so incredibly important, especially as you're gonna step into a journey of your life that's going to.
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to test you and break you and build you in so many beautiful and powerful ways. Yeah, I mean, it is one of the most such an honor, a role that you play here on earth that you get to steward these souls through and guide them and shape them. And it's just not talked about enough that you can only do the best that you know how. And that's not consciously.
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Because consciously I was Mary Poppins. I was going to be the Pinterest mom. I had 20 years of early education behind me before I had my own kids. And the subconscious, like, I couldn't sit and play with my kids because I was like, oh, I got to do this. I got to do this. I got to do this. And it wasn't until, you know, you get cracked open and you're like, oh, I am patterning the same way my mother patterned and I love my mother.
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but I don't want to be my mother or how she was. And a lot of women have those blocks inside of them. And I truly believe that we are in a point of time that we need more conscious mamas sooner. Consciousness is not like, know, when people hear consciousness, like, yeah, I'm conscious, I'm conscious. But it's like, okay, you might be conscious about your inner world, but are you conscious about your relationships? Are you conscious about your communication? Are you conscious about...
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your purpose, are you conscious? Like, that's why I call it the four pillars of life. Most people are thriving in one to two pillars and pay zero attention to the others. And we are going to pause right there. know you guys, but let's just pretend it's 1989 for those who are alive and it's TGI Friday and you have to wait for that cliffhanger of full house. I hope you have a beautiful weekend.
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And we will see you next Friday for another episode of Finding Fertility and stuck in the cycle of endless research. And you're at a point where you are screaming, I have tried everything, why isn't this working? This only works for women who are ready to take a radical responsibility for their journey and start listening to their body's innate wisdom. Because deep down, you know you can heal and achieve your ultimate goal. If that's not you yet, that's okay. Not everyone is ready.
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yet to show up with ease, deeply connect to their energy, unlock subconscious patterns, and listen to their body's ability to come into full coherence. But for those who are ready, I'm offering something I only do with my paying clients, and this is a fertility breakthrough session. This is the first thing I do, even before I start.
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really deeply working with someone in a coaching package. It's a deep dive session where we look at exactly where you are right now, what's keeping you stuck, and the easy shifts that can change everything. But fair warning, these sessions are very limited and go fast. So if you're interested in checking out my superpower for uncovering exactly what's been overlooked, jump into one of these free calls.
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They're deep, they're intuitive, and they're game changing. The only way you can access this is if you actually personally message me. You can do it on your favorite platform, IG, TikTok, or at my personal email, monica, at findingfertility.co, not .com, because they wanted $3,000 for the M with just one word. And that word is dreams, obviously, D-R-E-A-M-S.
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and I'll make sure you get that link right away. Remember, this transformation happens when you stay committed to yourself. Trust your body, follow your intuition, make it possible. The links that you need are down below. And if you are still here and you absolutely love this podcast, please take some time and leave me a review and help other women like you find this podcast to get the support they need. Help a sister out. Leave a review today.
