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Control is rarely loud.

It is quiet.
Polite.
Productive.

It looks like responsibility.
It feels like survival.

Most women I speak to do not identify as controlling.
They identify as careful.
Committed.
Doing their best.

And they are.

But there is a moment when effort stops serving life.
When the nervo...

The fertility industry has a lot of women believing their eggs are locked inside a magical ovary that can only decline with age.

Birthday candles equal doom.

That dramatic blue graph. The sharp drop after thirty five. The urgency. Freeze your eggs. Hurry up.

Age matters. Biology matters. But the ...

Control rarely looks like force.

It looks like responsibility.
It looks like being proactive.
It looks like fixing something before it becomes a problem.

It looks like love.

And for many women on a fertility journey, control has worked.
Until it didn’t.

There is a moment when the body starts asking...

When I was twenty seven and infertile my cycle was perfect.

This might be the most grounding thing I can say to you.

Most women who experience infertility will get pregnant.

Maybe not on the timeline they imagined.
Maybe not in the way they envisioned.
Maybe not without medical assistance.
Maybe after losses, detours, grief, or surrender they never planned on...

You don’t feel stuck because you are doing it wrong.

You feel stuck because you are doing it automatically.

Most women I work with are not reckless or disconnected. They are efficient. Capable. Always one step ahead. Their nervous system learned very early that safety lives in anticipation.

So co...

You are trying to get and stay pregnant.

Here is the part no one can bypass.

Your body is made of cells. Your egg is one of the largest cells in your body.

This is not mystical. It is biology.

If you want to boost your fertility you have to improve overall cellular health. Fertility does not ope...

Control rarely looks like control.

It looks like responsibility.
It looks like maturity.
It looks like being the one who keeps everything from falling apart.

Most women do not experience control as force.
They experience it as protection.

And the nervous system agrees.

Staying on top of things feel...